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So, you wanna grow your hair? This is what you should do.

Here’s some key things you should know about growing your hair.

1. PLEASE for the love of all that is holy, get your dang hair cut. I don’t know where this got mixed up over the years, but it reminds me of the game “telephone” someone starts with the truth, and by the time it gets to you, it makes no sense. So let me tell you the truth, like we always do at the end of the game; Cutting your hair regularly prevents the split ends from splitting further up the hair shaft. So, the longer you go without getting a hair cut, the more broken hairs, and flyaways you’ll have.

So many people come to me saying “well I thought that if I get my hair cut, it’ll grow faster.” No, dear. Your hair grows from your scalp, and we trim the ends of your hair, so logically that makes no sense. What DOES happen when you get your hair cut regularly, is you prevent the damage from happening in the first place. Trimming off the dead ends stops the hair from splitting, so it can grow out in a healthy way. When your hair finally gets long, you’ll be split-end and flyaway free!

2. Make sure you’re using good hair products at home. I’m a hairstylist so you’re probably in the notion that I want you to just buy the product from me, so I make money on it. Sorry to break it to you, but in my case that’s just not true. I work hard on your hair at the salon, and you spend a lot of money with me. Buying good products (Vegan/Vegetarian, cruelty free, and without parabens, sulfates and silicones) only protects your investment that you spent in the salon with me. I only want the best for you and your hair. I’ll only suggest products that I have used and liked in my own hair.

Good products will help ensure that your hair stays strong and hydrated after you leave me, so that you can stretch your appointments further (which actually saves you money in the long run!) If you need a recommendation for what your hair needs, you can check out my other blog post titled “my favorite products” – it’s a whole guide that I’ve created to help you find products that will work best for your hair texture and density.

3. Do an oil treatment on your hair and scalp. I personally use castor oil, from Whole Foods, but there are many hair oils on the market that are formulated specifically to help you grow your hair. Warm the oil in your hands before applying, then add a generous amount to your scalp and then brush or comb through your ends and clip your hair up. Leave it on for 15-20 minutes. Don’t leave it on too long, and be sure to completely wash your hair free of any oils before you dry it.

4. Do regular deep conditioning treatments at home. No matter what time of year it is, your hair needs it. I don’t care if its the middle of a steamy hot summer, or dead dry winter. Your hair is lacking something, so why not just give it what it needs? Plus, doing a weekly hair masque is like giving yourself a little at home spa treatment, and it feels good. I do mine on Sundays, and it feels like a little “thank you” to myself. Make sure you’re buying good quality hair masques too, not just the $2 ones you can buy at Walgreens (I’ve tried so many of them on myself, trust me, they’re not even worth it.) Treat yo’ self, because you deserve it.

5. Avoid intense coloring & lightening services. Yep, I’m talking to you. I see you, I know you bought that Clairol box lightener from Walgreens. If you really have the itch for coloring your hair, go see a stylist. Then be honest about your previous color history so that we can make a safe color plan that will keep the integrity of your hair as strong as possible. We know what we’re doing, and our job is to keep your hair healthy. We’ll lead you in the right direction.

These are just a few steps that you can follow to keep your healthy in order for it to grow out long and healthy! There are plenty more, and I’ll definitely write on this topic again. I’d love to hear what your biggest takeaway was! Comment below so I know what you liked about this one, and feel free to tell me what you want to learn more about!

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Hi, I'm Jessie.
Your hairstylist +  kindred spirit.

Have you ever met a girl in line at a coffee shop, and you're instantly friends? You order the same drink, with oat milk obviously. You both love Taylor Swift, and Tony Bennett, and you wish your hair would do whatever hers is doing because it's flawless. You're walking out the door at the same time, just to head in different directions, possibly never to see each other again. You get this urge to shout "WAIT! LETS BE FRIENDS!" but that feels weird. Don't worry, it's not weird. This happens to me all of the time. The coolest thing is, I totally want to be friends, AND I know how to fix your hair! Come see me, it'll be so much fun, you'll forget you had other stuff to do.

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Here’s some key things you should know about growing your hair. 1. PLEASE for the love of all that is holy, get your dang hair cut. I don’t know where this got mixed up over the years, but it reminds me of the game “telephone” someone starts with the truth, and by the time it […]

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Here’s some key things you should know about growing your hair. 1. PLEASE for the love of all that is holy, get your dang hair cut. I don’t know where this got mixed up over the years, but it reminds me of the game “telephone” someone starts with the truth, and by the time it […]

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